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  • A drunk bloke

    I was at the bar last night with friends and having a good time.  We knew the people that worked there and we cut through the VIP line and we were always served right away and never had to wait in line bumping into other people trying to buy a drink.  It was awesome to have things done right away for you and when this happens, of course the faster you are going to get drunk.  No more waiting in line and starting to loose the buzz, when you can drinks at anytime you want.

    However,. there is a downfall that I found out.  One of my buddies was partying with us and this dude is a drinker.  He is a fcuking tank!!!!  But to all you friends out there, never bring a friend to a bar, lounge, pub, anyting that serves alcohol when they recently have broken up with someone.  Because my mate lost his mind that I never saw before in a man.

    He dated this girl for about three months and it was his first real girlfriend.  I mean he put so much effort and energy into this girl that he used the words "I love you".  He was serious.  But then all of a sudden he found out that she cheated on him and a few weeks later she tells him that she pregnant and is not sure who the dad is.  This fcuked him up bad.   

    Towards the end of the night when we all wanted to leave my friend all of a sudden starts freaking out, and he is this 200 pound Native bouncer who can really through a punch and people were just looking at him.  We took him outside as quick as possible and outside he was freaking out even more.  He was yelling like a mad man saying "I'm going to kill that B*tch".  Then we realized that he saw his ex with another guy and his ex is a real slut.  I mean, sucks shiet that he dated her in the first place but maybe he was thinkning that she has changed.  NOPE.  He was punching cars and pushing us to get out of his way.  He was a mad man.  We tried to clam him down when one of our friends gave him a joint and he took, but that didn't work.  After an hour of him freaking out, we finally got him into the car and drove him home.

    What I realized from this whole fiasco of insanity was that I too was messed up when I loss someone.  It still hurts to think about it and sometimes I wonder if I am ever going to move on.  I do fucked up things but I never have freaked out like last night when I get drunk.  I'm glad she wasn't  a slut. 

Tuesday, 05 August 2008

  • 6 months

    So its been six months since I broke up with Lucy and the funny thing is that she called me yesterday and asked how my love life was.  What i say . . . . really shitty.  Aren't there any chill, down to earth, but yet knows how to have a good time kind of girl out there.  Well there is and she is in bloody Wales right now.  Sure I go out on dates, but the ones I've dated are either too smart, too wild, or plain crazy.  My crazy ex girlfriend (which almost costed me loosing my best friends) keeps on texting me and I am a soft spoken kind of bloke that replies with three to four words and she still doesn't get the hint. 

    All of the girls have been good dates, but neither of them have ever worked out.  The first girl I dated after breaking up with Lucy was Brittany.  She was the one who first came up to me this one night at the bar and said her name was Brittany and that she has seen me a lot at the bars.  Ya I've seen her too, especially at the OC where I work (as a bouncer) but I never approached her or any girl when I am working.  Few weeks later I asked her if she wanted to go to a movie and then we went out to Moxies for some desert and coffee.  She had a great personality and was family oriented.  She was from the country and used to be teased a lot for her freckles.  We dated for a bout a month until this one night she wanted me to come over to her place and at teh same time I was with Lucy hanging out.  I had to choose to either to go to Brittany's place or saty with Lucy.  The truth is I wanted to stay with Lucy and at the same token, I knew that she would be leaving to England.  Then there was Brittany who I can start something new with.  I choose Lucy.

    A couple of says later, Brittany called it off saying that she couldn't commit because she wasn't ready for a realtionship and wanted be friends.  And her and I really became friends and are still talking.

    After Brittany I dated Renae.  I met her at the bar when she was with this girl I knew (Catherine).  I was working that night and I saw Catherine and Renae waiting for a cab, which they must have been waiting for a about half an hour.  Itr was really pouring out so I told Catherine that I can giver her a ride cause she lived in my area and Catherine asked if I could dropped Renae off since it was on the way and that they would give me gas and I said just give me food cause I was really hungry that night.  We went to Sals and the thing that I noticed about Renae was that she was hillarious.  Catherine was done eating her salad and put her napkin on her plate and the next thing I know is that Renae reaches out and grabs some salad with her hands and eats it.  Totlally un lady like, but really funny.

    Renae was very artistic.  She sang in a choir group and loved the arts.  She went to ballets and galleries.  She drank wine and knew her wine really well.  She was goofy and always made me laugh.  When she found out that she made it to the honours program for psychology at the U of M was when she told me that she couldn't commit.  She said that everytime she is in school she has no friends and focus is school especially since she made it to the honours program.  So that date ended.

    My last date is Isabelle.  I met her through Lucy who was friends with this one girl and was friends with Isabelle.  Isabelle was like Brittany a bar star but way more than Brittany.  She was everywhere.  She would enter in booty shake contests and my buddies would say that they have seen her in other bars that I don't go to.  Isabelle is from Ontario and its hard meeting people from Ontario.  She was really funny and always cracked jokes of how good looking she was but wasn't really serious.  Has been single for about three years now because her last realtionship was really a bad one.  But I am not sure where this is going with her and I don't think it will work since she is a bar star.

    So Lucy, my love is shitty since you left. Lol.

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